I think you've done enough.

and the simplest thing is to see if the other person has done it, what everyone else can do.

however, it's easy to forget in this simplicity that the idea of being compared is the easiest to lose value.

what I want to share with you tonight are exactly two stories about "compare and care".

@ Dafu

one year during the festival, I talked with my roommates about what gifts they got for their girlfriends.

when one of my roommates said she had bought her girlfriend a 3,000 yuan plaid scarf, I immediately felt that some of the hundreds of lipstick I had prepared for my girlfriend could not handle it.

in particular, the roommate didn't have much money. He lived frugally for two months and borrowed some from his friends to get the 3,000 yuan.

and I ask myself, I can't do it to this extent.

so when I gave her the gift, I felt guilty, not that she didn't like it, but that I began to suspect that my feelings for her were not deep enough.

Slip into the elegant collection of wedding dresses under 500. Enjoy the combination of simplicity and utility.

even now, we have been in love for more than three years, I still have this feeling.

every time I see those "model boyfriends" around me, I will inevitably feel guilty for a while.

however, in this repeated self-doubt, I also found a certain "firmness" in myself:

I briefly suspected that I didn't do enough, maybe I didn't like it that much;

will always find that they are not doing their best when comparing with others.

those days, however, were not as smooth as expected.

and when we want to go to the temple, because we don't know the way, we get on the bus that enthusiastic passers-by find for us.

but what really frustrates me is that when we finally transferred out of the jewelry store, I opened my moments. As soon as I was about to complain, I saw comments from my colleagues:

I didn't expect that my child specially opened China Mobile International /Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan roaming with his father, which was not as troublesome as others said to rent an airport WIFI and get another Thai card.

when I landed, I announced that I was safe at home, and all the hundreds of silk scarf photos I took were sent out, not stuck at all.

@ Dad Zhang

so, we don't have to be like others, just do our best, and we will be very satisfied.

because I think that looking at things from only one perspective will overlook a lot of details, such as:

it turns out that it is just a small matter of "China Mobile International /Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan roaming" for my parents, which can also make them very happy.

maybe what we really should reflect on is not those of us who are working hard, but the "other people" who always think that others are not working hard enough, such as Ah Hui's friends and Zhang Xin's colleagues in the story.

so, we don't have to be like others, just do our best, and we will be very satisfied.

because I think that looking at things from only one perspective will overlook a lot of details, such as:

it turns out that it is just a small matter of "China Mobile International /Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan roaming" for my parents, which can also make them very happy.

maybe what we really should reflect on is not those of us who are working hard, but the "other people" who always think that others are not working hard enough, such as Ah Hui's friends and Zhang Xin's colleagues in the story.

this is the goodwill we should all have in adulthood.

ask two questions:

did you star us?