Hard work is one of the things I hate most.

16
/March 2023

Today is Christmas Eve, and all the disorganized editors went to the Expo Square. After watching the movie, they carried out some interesting activities on the stalls in the square, and the whole world was permeated with red festive atmosphere.

in the middle of playing, Zhang Jingzhi suddenly said to me, "did you revise your manuscript last night?" Hearing this, I could only shrug my shoulders and silently leave the jubilant crowd and painstakingly change the manuscript I wrote at two o'clock last night in McDonald's.

"you have to work so hard for the holidays." A fellow friend suddenly sighed, "sometimes, I envy people who work hard."

as I opened my notebook, I touched my chin and said, "what is there to envy when working hard?" Hard work is worthless. "

originally this was just a casual remark, but unexpectedly he began to refute me seriously: "Why is it worthless to work hard?" Do you know how many people don't work hard? "

I looked at him but said nothing. Because in the past, like him, I felt that hard work was a very valuable and precious thing.

so I wrote this article very seriously. I want to tear up the overly gorgeous package of efforts and tell you that efforts are worthless.

I liked to play games when I was a child. When I first played Warcraft III, I was scolded by countless people. At that time, I had to change a game for an id, because my level was so bad that my teammates announced that I was rubbish, and if I didn't change, there would be no one to play with me.

so I took a lot of notes. I made a list of the attack power, defense force, armor type and damage type of each arm, and kept it firmly in mind. While changing the number, I continued to be scolded for six months.

my brother was surprised and said, "you work too hard for a game." At that time, I didn't realize that I was "trying". I just thought I was playing.

but also taking notes, I have never taken any notes in my study, because I feel very painful and I think I am working hard.

have you found that people will need chicken soup to encourage him to continue to work hard, because what he does does not have any interest to him and cannot give him any happiness.

when you chase the show, you open it on time, concentrate on it, know every detail and make people cry, but you don't feel like you're trying to watch the show. You're happy. In the same way, replace watching a play with reading, and you suddenly think, shit, I'm so fucking hard.

trying is not sacred at all, and when you think you're working hard, it means you don't like it at all.

my father does business in the fruit market. When the festival comes every year, the demand for fruit rises sharply. My father needs to work for three or four days in a row and has no time to go to bed. Yell, command, quarrel with customers and calculate in the wholesale market every day. After the festival, I can always see my father come home with scarlet eyes and say only one sentence in his hoarse throat: "Water."

he never said to us kids, "your father, I work hard." In my father's eyes, hard work is as normal as drinking water, and no one will tell anyone how many glasses of water they drank today.

Chicken soup of this era attaches so much importance to hard work that it seems that as long as you work hard, you will be half successful.

maybe it's too excruciating to try to do something you don't like, so people comfort themselves by deceiving themselves that "efforts are valuable" to keep moving forward and give themselves a reason to continue to suffer.

efforts are valuable, but unfortunately, the value is not as high as we thought. If you can succeed if you work hard, it is simply a matter of extreme happiness.

EQ, way of thinking, direction judgment and other factors that really determine success are all too difficult to improve. And the effort is very simple, it is just a grit of teeth.

work hard is not difficult, life will force you to work hard, everyone in life is working hard. Stop deceiving yourself, hard work is not a secret, it is just a hoe, no one will think a hoe is valuable.

in fact, I know very well that there is nothing to do but work hard, but I always don't want to deceive myself and tell myself that hard work is valuable.

because when you think your efforts are worthwhile, it's easy to have a mindset that you don't understand why you're working so hard and still can't change anything.

admitting that you are rubbish is not a desperate situation, but self-deception is the real desperate situation. You have to use the tool of effort to exchange, to exchange things of real value, thinking, choice, judgment.

Don't encourage yourself to move forward with words like "strive to see the wider world." find other reasons to help you through this despair.

my sister came to me the other day and said that she had no pocket money recently and wanted to watch videos online without a member. She asked me if I could make her a member of iqiyi or Youku.

I have been spending a lot of money recently. I glanced at my account balance and was so fucking ashamed that I couldn't even take out dozens of yuan on the spot. So I sent my sister a link to the game of Free Fei, telling her that she could get iqiyi or Youku members to play this game.

my sister really went to play Free Flying's Christmas game link. Later, she told me that she played all night, got several membership cards, and was very happy.

at that time, I was very uncomfortable because I found myself so worthless that I had to make a detour to satisfy my sister's little wish.

to be honest, until now, I still hate to work hard, but I am willing to make those painful efforts for the sake of those important people.

it's not because of the polite words on Zhihu that "strive to see a better world". ButVery simple, I want to make myself valuable enough to make my loved ones work a little less hard and suffer a little less.

effort is often not as useful as it is said in chicken soup. To use it to find a truly valuable ability, the first step is to admit that the effort is less valuable, and the second step is to find the belief to survive.

Happy Christmas Eve. Good night

Today is Christmas Eve. All the disorganized editors went to the Expo Square and carried out some interesting activities at the square booth after watching the movie. the whole world is permeated with red festive atmosphere.

in the middle of playing, Zhang Jingzhi suddenly said to me, "did you revise your manuscript last night?" Hearing this, I could only shrug my shoulders and silently leave the jubilant crowd and painstakingly change the manuscript I wrote at two o'clock last night in McDonald's.

"you have to work so hard for the holidays." A fellow friend suddenly sighed, "sometimes, I envy people who work hard."

as I opened my notebook, I touched my chin and said, "what is there to envy when working hard?" Hard work is worthless. "

originally this was just a casual remark, but unexpectedly he began to refute me seriously: "Why is it worthless to work hard?" Do you know how many people don't work hard? "

I looked at him but said nothing. Because in the past, like him, I felt that hard work was a very valuable and precious thing.

so I wrote this article very seriously. I want to tear up the overly gorgeous package of efforts and tell you that efforts are worthless.

when I was a child, I liked playing games. When I first played Warcraft III, I was scolded by countless people. At that time, I had to change a game for an id, because my level was so bad that my teammates announced that I was rubbish, and if I didn't, there would be no one to play with me.

so I took a lot of notes. I made a list of the attack power, defense force, armor type and damage type of each arm. I kept it firmly in mind and continued to be scolded for half a year while changing the number.

but also taking notes, I have never taken any notes in my study, because I feel very painful and I think I am working hard.

have you found that people will need chicken soup to encourage him to continue to work hard because what he does does not have any interest in him and can not give him any happiness.

Slip into the super charming in our red prom dresses. Immediately after buying, you get a peace of mind.

when you chase the show, you open it on time, concentrate, know every detail, and know that you can make people cry, but you don't think you are trying to watch the play. You are very happy. In the same way, replace watching a play with reading, and you suddenly think, shit, I'm so fucking hard.

my father does business in the fruit market. As soon as the festival arrives every year, the demand for fruit rises sharply. My father needs to work for three or four days in a row and has no time to go to bed. Yell, command, quarrel with customers and calculate in the wholesale market every day. After the festival, I can always see my father come home with scarlet eyes and say only one sentence in his hoarse throat: "Water."

he never said to us kids, "your dad, I'm working hard." In my father's eyes, hard work is as normal as drinking water, and no one will tell anyone how many glasses of water they drank today.

maybe it's too excruciating to try to do something you don't like, so people comfort themselves by deceiving themselves that "efforts are valuable" to keep moving forward. to give yourself a reason to continue to suffer.

in fact, I know very well that there is nothing to do but work hard, but I always don't want to deceive myself and tell myself that hard work is valuable.

admitting that you are rubbish is not a desperate situation, but self-deception is the real desperate situation. you have to use the tool of effort to exchange, to exchange things of real value, thoughts, choices, judgments.

do not use "Work hard to see the wider world. "encourage yourself to move on, and you need to find other reasons to help you through this despair."

I've been spending a lot of money recently. I took a look at my account balance and was so fucking ashamed that I couldn't even take out dozens of yuan on the spot. So I sent my sister a link to the game Free Fei and told her that she could get iqiyi or Youku members to play this game.

at that time, I was very uncomfortable because I found myself so worthless that I had to make a detour to satisfy my sister's little wish.

effort is often not as useful as it is said in chicken soup. To use it to find a truly valuable ability, the first step is to admit that the effort is less valuable, and the second step is to find the belief to survive.

Happy Christmas Eve and good night.

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